"I arrived Guildford, home to the prestigious University of
Surrey, on the evening of Tuesday 23rd September, 2014 for my M.Sc. in
Economics. I was ushered to my house at No. 22 Hamilton Drive, Hazel Farm
Campus of the University of Surrey. I spent that night fatigued and famished
because I couldn’t even locate where I could get a Halal meal and help myself
after hours of exhaustive flight from Abuja to London Heathrow. On Thursday, I
managed to get something to pacify body and soul to remain together but there
was a bigger problem: I was feeling lonely; I was acclimatizing slowly. But I
soldiered on and kept my chin up, dragging myself by my own bootstraps. On
Friday morning, I enquired for and was directed to the hall where Muslim
students at the University of Surrey perform the Friday prayers.
Of course the primary motive for the efforts I put in at
locating the place for Friday congregational prayers was to fulfill one of my
obligatory duties as a Muslim. But, to be honest, I also had an ulterior,
secondary motive: It was to make friends—Nigeriana or Muslimina—who’d guide me
through my physical, cultural and academic acclimatization processes. And a
very good, very important friend indeed I made that Friday!
After the prayer was over and worshipers were exchanging greetings
and handshakes, I ran into a lanky, chocolate-complexioned, soft-spoken, very
shy dude standing by the exit door. We exchanged your-face-looks-familiar-to-me
kind of glances before he stretched his hand towards me with “Salamu Alaykum”.
I grabbed the hand and replied “Wa alaykumussalam”. He said “I am Yusuf” and I
also returned “I am Hamisu”. He then asked if I had been a student or was just
joining the University as a fresher. And I told him that I had just arrived for
my Msc. And with a note of readiness to render help in his voice, Yusuf asked
if I had shopped for winter wears and other stuff which I told him I didn’t and
we exchanged phone numbers agreeing to meet again the following day.
Early Saturday morning while I was still asleep, my phone rang
and you can guess who the caller was. “Hello, Hamis[u]”, “Hello, Yusuf”- we
greeted and he asked how my night was; if there was any problem etc in a very
caring tone akin to that of a kind High School senior student and a junior one
entrusted under his care. Yusuf then directed me to meet him at House No. 4
Sandfield Court where he and Zahra stayed for their undergrad studies at
Surrey. We then went straight to Primark Store, a stone’s throw away from
Yusuf’s house, where he guided me into buying winter wears, kitchen utensils
and other stuff. Yusuf carried most of my items himself leaving me with a few
things to carry and he accompanied me to my house! We chatted for a while in my
room and he left me slobbering over how kind he was to me. “Wannan duk yadda
aka yi dan bubban gida ne!” [meaning; “this guy must have come from a
responsible family”], —I soliloquized after I saw him off.
But don’t forget, throughout those encounters, I never knew
Yusuf was the son of a VIP back home. He didn’t tell me. I didn’t sense it. His
material or living conditions didn’t bear any evidence for anything like that.
We just moved along as compatriots; sharing a country, colour, culture and
above all Islam. Occasionally, either in my house or his, we would be
discussing about politics back home and, as a Buhari die hard, I would always
point out to Yusuf the necessity of a Buhari presidency to put Nigeria back on
track and he just listened and nodded along shying away from a direct
reference/discussion of the politician in the center of our tête-à-tête. But I
didn’t suspect anything. I didn’t have reasons to.
The day “the pulako cover” was blown off Yusuf was on a
Friday when Muslim faithful were asked by the Imam to sign a petition for the
establishment of an Islamic Center/Mosque in Guildford. I was immediately
following Yusuf on the queue and out of the corner of my eyes I peeped through
and sighted him write “Yusuf Buhari”. This was the lead that bolstered up two
other ones I had previously gathered: One, being the campus talk I once
overheard of but trivialized about a Buhari’s son and daughter being Surrey
students. And the second was when Yusuf sometime told me that he is from Daura
but based in Kaduna. Connecting those three (3) dots together unmasked Yusuf
for me! And struggling to come to terms with how a young man of his age and
time would conceal and refuse to flaunt his prominent family identity not only
gave me a hard lesson in Fulfulde Pulako but also encouraged me to ask Yusuf
for confirmation of my conclusion on his identity. And he only smiled and added
“Mallam Hamisu kenan[Oh! See you Hamisu]!” This confirmed my conclusion and
added to my respect for the People’s General for bringing up such a cool, calm
and cultured son!
A chip off the old block, Yusuf is a very humble guy. He is
unassuming, unpretentious and un-ostentatious. He is reserved but easygoing and
a man of few words; a taciturn, if you like. He is, I think, an introvert in
the sense that he doesn’t involve himself in other people’s businesses. Yusuf
doesn’t smoke. He doesn’t drink. He doesn’t go out with girls. He is just a son
any father would love to have in his family! In Guildford, Yusuf lived a very
modest, decent, and prudent life as evidenced by the fact that he and Zahra
used to cook their food themselves—something Nigerian elite’s children never do
in UK! May God ease and speed up your recovery, Mallam Yusuf!"
Obviously a very good boy.
Get well soon, Yusuf.
1 comment:
Speedy recovery for him
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